Tag: relationship

  • Forgiveness and Trauma

    We are told to forgive. Teachers, counselors, pastors, parents – all those people who guide us through life teach us about forgiveness. Truthfully, being able to forgive really does help us to move on and move forward with our lives, but what if we try to do it when we aren’t ready, or in such…

  • Why am I praying?

    Why am I praying?

    Sometimes I think we tend to minimize prayer. We say things like, “I’m sorry I can’t do more right now, but I can pray” or, “All we can do is pray.” What we sometimes fail to understand is that prayer is MIGHTY. It affects so much more than ourselves and the world around us in…

  • Retirement takes a minute….

    Retirement takes a minute….

    My husband Martin and I retired in 2018. I retired involuntarily with a disability, my husband retired voluntarily and with the honor of having served his country and his state for over 30 years, in the military and law enforcement. Two very different sets of circumstances but with the same result – what do we…

  • I’m exhausted, but they had fun!

    I’m exhausted, but they had fun!

    I really do think that the reason we generally don’t have the ability to have children later in life is because God knew our limitations. Seriously, who has the energy to chase toddlers and read with a fidgety 6 year old after the age of 50?!? This last week we took care of the grandkids…

  • Finding “home” wherever you are

    Are you happy enough with your life right now that you can be “home” where you live? Today marks 13 years since I moved away from my hometown of Blythe, CA. While it was a difficult move, it was necessary for my own mental and emotional health. It gave me time to heal and to…

  • Please hold….

    Please hold….

    God NEVER puts us on hold.

  • My Amazing Kids

    My Amazing Kids

    Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Psalm 127:3-4

  • The Blessing of Love

    The Blessing of Love

    “Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.” – Proverbs 31:25

  • Women are the Glue

    A friend once told me that women are the glue in a relationship (yes, he was a man). As women, we are designed to do so much – we bear children, we bleed mysteriously for days every month without dying, we hold our families together when all else is falling apart. As mothers, we tend…